Couples Who Pray Together Stay Together: The Power of a Spiritual Connection
In today’s fast-paced world, it can be challenging for couples to find time to connect and nurture the spiritual intimacy in their relationship. The constant pull of work, family, and other responsibilities can make it difficult to prioritize one another. However, the truth is that having a strong spiritual connection can significantly enhance the bond between a couple. Praying together as a couple is an essential aspect of spirituality, and for good reason. In this post, we will explore the benefits of praying together, what to do to start praying together when your husband is resistant, what the Bible says about praying as a couple, and how to get started with a prayer as a couple.
Benefits of Praying Together
Praying together as a couple not only strengthens your bond, but it also offers numerous emotional, mental, physical unity and spiritual benefits. The act of prayer can foster a deep sense of intimacy, vulnerability, and security in a relationship, encouraging couples to become more transparent and open with one another. Furthermore, praying together can reduce stress and anxiety, increase gratitude, and foster a sense of unity in your marriage in the face of challenges.
Prayer breeds appreciation. Praying as a couple can help each partner to focus on the good in their relationship, increasing appreciation for one another and gratitude for the blessings in the couple’s prayer life.
Prayer encourages humility in relationships. Since prayer is an act of humility, it helps couples to recognize that they are not perfect and need guidance from a higher power. This allows them to put aside personal pride and work on their relationship.
Prayer builds trust. Praying together helps couples to grow closer, trust each other more deeply, and rely on one another when times are tough. When a couple prays together, they can open up about their fears and worries and share them with the Lord in prayer. This releases anxious energy from the relationship and creates a deeper sense of safety and security.
When Your Husband is Resistant
There may be times when your husband is resistant to praying together, either because he feels unsure about sharing this part of his life with you or is struggling with his faith. It’s crucial not to force or pressure him into praying, as doing so may only hurt or push him further away. Instead, be patient, supportive, and loving to help open his heart to the idea. You can always pray individually, for each other, or approach spiritual conversations gently, creating an open dialogue about your thoughts and feelings on the matter.
I love the counsel from 1 Peter 3. Peter says, “3 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.”
Peter is reminding us that our actions speak louder than words. Show your husband love and respect by treating him with patience, kindness, and understanding. If your husband is not ready to pray with you, make sure you’re praying. Pray for yourself, forgive and pray for him.
What Does the Bible Say about Praying as a Couple?
Biblical scripture offers a strong foundation for married couples together to pray and seek God’s guidance together. In Matthew 18:19-20, Jesus says, “Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” Praying as a couple is a powerful way to ensure that your hearts and desires are in alignment as you seek God’s will for your relationship and your lives.
When you’re praying together, it’s important to remember that your prayer should be focused on the Lord, not each other. Make sure you are in turns praying for God’s guidance and protection over your lives, marriages, relationship, and family. God will grant you the desires of your heart as your heart turns toward Him and His will.
How to Pray as a Couple
Praying together doesn’t have to be complicated or intimidating. Here are several suggestions to get started:
1. Begin praying together by setting a specific time each day when you can pray together. Whether it’s in the morning, evening, or during mealtime, consistency helps create a habit.
2. Choose a quiet space for prayer time where you can focus on your prayers without distractions.
3. Share with each other the prayer requests you might have, discussing your concerns, hopes, and dreams with one another. It’s essential to be honest and genuine in your exchanges.
4. Speak your prayers out loud, taking turns talking or praying together simultaneously. You can use a prewritten prayer or let your words flow freely from your heart.
5. Appreciation is key, so thanking each other and God for the opportunity to share in this sacred activity is a good practice.
Praying together as a married couple may seem challenging at first, but with time, patience, and trust in God, couples and families will experience the transformative power of a strong spiritual connection. Remember, where two or more are gathered in His name, He is present. Let the power of prayer strengthen your bond with your spouse and draw you closer to the Lord.
Praying together can help cement your relationship, provide comfort in times of solidarity, deepen each partner or spouse’s understanding of their spiritual journey and faith study, and foster a sense of spiritual unity even in the face of challenges. It is also an opportunity to draw nearer to God and learn more about the beauty of His Word. So don’t give up hope—God can work miracles when we are willing to trust Him with our hearts.
No matter where you are on your spiritual journey, it’s important to remember that God loves each of us unconditionally. He will never leave or forsake us, and He will always be ready to hear our prayers. Pray together as a couple, trusting that God is listening and working out all things on your behalf. With His help, you can expect the best possible outcome that comes from placing your faith in Him.
The Bible repeatedly reminds us of the importance of prayer. As a couple, your marriage can benefit greatly from praying together. It is an opportunity to connect with one another in a meaningful way through worship and experience God’s presence in the most intimate of settings. So don’t be afraid to make prayer part of your relationship today!
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God bless you both!
